Learn more about the adoption process by viewing videos from birth parents, adoptees, and adoptive parents.
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Radio Interviews
November 26, 2009 -
Gladney Birth Mom, Priscilla, shares her decision-process on choosing adoption for her child.
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Birth Mother Testimonials
"When I found out that I was pregnant at the age of 13, I was very scared. My mom suggested we go to LifeCare of Brandon so that we could receive some support through this difficult time. Karen Brooks comforted me and talked to me about my choices of either single parenting or adoption. She also told me about the adoption support group that meets weekly at the Center. My mom and I attended and were able to hear other adoption stories. Not only did the women in group talk about how the Center helped them, but also how God played a role in their adoption journey. I had many questions about how God could play a part in my adoption. After leaving group that first night, I didn't feel like adoption was a bad thing. I realized that you only place your baby for adoption because you love them enough to give them a better home. I still hadn't made my decision yet so I went to see Charlene Hubbard once a week until I was content with my choice to place my son for adoption. Charlene also helped me see how God fulfilled his purpose through me. I started seeing my adoption social worker, Erica Andres of Gladney Adoption, quite frequently after I made my decision because now I had to choose the parents for my son. Erica helped me write a dream family list so that I could narrow my choices down. After I had made my choice I met with Charlene at least twice a week so that I could prepare myself for the day that I had to place my son in the hands of his new parents. She told me what to expect and on the day that I signed the papers I knew that I had made the right choice. Even after I had my son, the women at LifeCare supported me and I continued to receive counseling so that I could get through the grieving process. They also introduced me to a new church that has an amazing youth ministry, and helped me see how God really moved in my life. LifeCare has helped me through so much and has helped me make one of the most important decisions of my life. Thank you!"
- Katie S., 13, placed in 2009
"My caseworker was phenomenal, as well, walking me through each step, affirming my emotions, and truly caring about what I wanted out of this. Gladney provided me with other birth mothers who have walked in my shoes for me to speak with. I was excited about picking a family and knew right away the adoptive parents and their daughter were the ones. It was still a roller coaster ride of emotions, because it meant I was totally and completely committed to the idea of adoption; but I had not told many people about the plan… Some people were not as supportive, which I knew I would encounter, but I was not going to let anyone discourage me… Right now I am happy for the family, and happy for my baby that she will have everything, especially a daddy. I am happy for myself that I can share my story without any regrets, and happy that God answered every single one of my prayers through this whole ordeal."
- Rachel, 40, placed in 2006
"Completely scared, I researched everything under the sun. I was going to be a mother whether I was ready or not. When I found Gladney, a sense of relief came over me. I could actually give this innocent child everything he needs… I decided on adoption because I love my baby and want the best for his life. I knew he would receive this from the very special family I chose. I think about him each and every day, knowing I have made the right decision."
- Amanda, 20, placed in 2007
"After meeting with my wonderful counselor, I felt a huge sense of relief, and for the first time, had hope that things were going to work out… In my sixth month of pregnancy, I moved into Gladney. As I began to meet my roommates and all the other girls at Gladney, I started to feel comfortable and began settling in. It was so reassuring and helpful to be around other young women who faced the same struggle. I shared many laughs and tears with the girls I met, and it was an experience I will never forget."
- Marcy, placed in 1999
"I knew in my heart what I wanted for him and found his family quickly… I quietly watched their faces, as they could do nothing but stare at the tiny miracle they were about to receive. We sat together and talked for a while, and I couldn't help but see the love they had in their eyes for my child. After I saw the happiness they had while they were simply holding him, I was more than 100 percent sure that I had done the right thing."
- Anonymous, 16, placed in 2007
E-mail a Gladney Birth Mother
Would you like to e-mail a birth mother who has placed a child for adoption? Use the e-mail link below to start communicating with Janice or Anne, who made adoption plans with Gladney. Ask her about the assistance she received at Gladney and the feelings she experienced throughout the adoption process. She can share with you her personal adoption journey!
Just call 1.800.GLADNEY (800.452.3639), and talk with a counselor. No one will judge you. We're here to listen and to help.
